Friday, October 16, 2009
Welcome to the first day of dealing with grief and loss. I talk to so many people who are dealing with loss. I have learned that loss is not only about death. As we go through life we are in a constant state of saying good-bye to so many parts of our life. Maturity opens our eyes up to the loss of identities we took for granted for a major part of our lives. As our children mature and begin their adult lives we loose our identity as their "mommy or daddy". We have new roles to fall into which are not always as comfortable as the original one. Some of us begin to deal with the loss of health. That which was once taken for granted may be in serious jeopardy. We experience loss when we change careers whether through tough economic times, or retirement. Divorce is another major form of loss that can be as difficult to come to terms with as a death. I know that there is no clear cut way to heal from loss. I also know that through the strength and support of others there is happiness to be found and peace. I know as we share our stories, we will be able to add strength to each other. Please share your story, your concerns, and the various ways you are coping. Remember loss is loss and deserves attention and resolution. I'm looking forward to talking with you.
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